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Dating an effeminate man

He was very polite and didn't even make any moves on me..I initiated a kiss (maybe I had too many glasses of wine) because I wanted to know if there was any chemistry there.

I’ve had to learn the hard way, that my “go-getter” attitude does not translate well in the dating world.

Not doing anything in the beginning stages of dating tends to drive me crazy.

I also had on my one-of-a-kind black sequin jacket—the one that, when the designer said, “It’s vintage,” I said, “Say no more.” My face was painted club-kid chic, and, despite my broad shoulders, I moved around with a certain sassy elegance: All-in-all, I was definitely serving some femme realness.

Alone, I blended in quite nicely with the queer mosaic of the crowd.

Some forums can only be seen by registered members. I worked with a guy with so many feminine traits that I just assumed he was gay. You could have knocked me over with a feather when I met his wife and two daughters. Fast forward..becomes friends with a flaming gay guy (don't get sensitive, you know what I'm talking about) Nice guy to hang out with. Who wants to have lived with a gay guy for 30 years? Three kids, 28 years together, and he finally tells her that he's gay, and moving to NY for the gay scene. They always know, but they don't always want to admit it to themselves, or anyone else. I think there's a difference between "soft gentle" men and those that are truly effeminate.

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I had one date with this cute guy who had such feminine mannerisms and a soft voice. My husband gave up being discreet about it years ago. Next thing we know, my friend is leaving his wife and moving in with the flaming guy. The wife was destroyed, and after 4 years, she still isn't over it. In this case, no one would have guessed the guy was gay. Many rugged masculine men have a softer more gentle side. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.

He’s kind, attentive and affectionate- when we’re together.